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Romantic Relationship Questions to Ask
- Is there anything I’ve done lately that’s made you feel loved?
- If you could bring me to any country, where would it be?
- What is your favorite memory of dating me?
- What would be the perfect date night for you?
- Do you consider me a romantic? And yourself?
- What do you think is our best moment together?
- Do you think you could be even more in love than we are now?
- What are some of your favorite memories we’ve made?
- How do you show your love for each other?
- What song would you dedicate to our relationship?
- What’s your love language—and are there any love languages that don’t matter to you at all?
- What was the best moment in your relationship so far? (Are you smiling while recalling that moment?)
- Do you have a romantic fantasy?
- What were you thinking about the day we met?
- What's one date we haven't gone on yet that you want to try?
- What makes you blush?
- When did you first want to kiss me?
- If you believe in soul mates, do you think you've met yours?
- What's your favorite thing that we do together?
- What do you think is our best moment together?
- What do you love about me? Just pick one.
- Do you like kissing or hugging more?
- What do you think the perfect date looks like?
- What was it like for you when we first kissed?

Deep Relationship Questions to Ask
- What do you think I appreciate the most about you?
- In what ways do we complicate our relationship?
- What makes our relationship better/special?
- What is your favorite thing about me?
- Have you started to do something because of each other’s influence?
- In what ways do you think we’re most compatible?
- What do you value most about our relationship?
- What do you think is your best quality?
- What are the most important things you would need in our relationship in the future to be truly happy together?
- If you could name one thing that you would like to change about our relationship, what would it be?
- Name one difference and one similarity between us that you enjoy.
- How do you think we're different from other couples?
- Do you think it's more important to be smart or to be kind?
- What life lesson did you learn from me?
- Was there anything that surprised you about me as we started getting more serious?
- What do you think about couples who own a business together and spend all their time together?
- What do you think about couples who are married but live in different cities?
- What makes our relationship better/special?
- What was the first thought you had about me? What did you think of me right from the start?
- How have your dreams changed since we first met?
- For you, what was the biggest challenge in our relationship?
- Is/was there anything you were afraid or determined to tell me for a long time?
- What do you think is your biggest strength and weakness in our relationship?
- What makes us stronger as a couple?
- What is your favorite thing about me?
- How serious are you both taking this relationship?
- What do you think our relationship will look like in 5 years?
- What qualities are most important to you in the opposite s*x?
- Are you positively affecting each other’s life?
- What are your top three priorities in life?

Important Relationship Questions to Ask
- Where do you see the two of us in 2 years?
- Will you make major purchasing decisions together?
- If you have different beliefs, what will you lead your children to do?
- Is there anything you think we should work on in our relationship?
- Is there anything you would like me to change about myself?
- Do you prefer that we do our grocery shopping together or separately?
- Have you talked about possible investments?
- Do you prefer that we eat meals at the same time and cook together?
- How much money should we contribute to a joint fund?
- Do you trust each other?
- Do you know your health status?
- Do you create a budget for each month? Is this important to you?
- How do you think children will change our relationship / affect our lives?
- What does marriage mean to you?
- How will you share childcare?
- Can you compromise with each other?
- How do we pay our expenses – an equal share or does one person pays more?
- How would you like to raise the children?
- Will you manage the money together? Will you have a joint account?
- Is there anything that I can do to communicate better when we have a conflict?
- How do you feel about getting a pet? Does this ever come into consideration?
- Are you saving for your retirement?
- Who will stay with them on maternity/paternity leave?
- What should be a priority in our relationship?
- Will you be drawing up a prenuptial agreement?
- If so, how many?
- Do you want to have children?
- Are you both debt-free? If debt exists, how do you plan to deal with it?
- How do we want to divide finances?
- How much money do we want to set aside for luxuries like date nights and travel?

Funny Relationship Questions to Ask
- If you were to give me a different name, what do you think would best suit me?
- Who's more romantic?
- What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to know about me? It can be as weird and wonderful as you like!
- Who has the crazier family?
- Who's more of a foodie?
- Who goes to bed earlier?
- Who takes up more space in bed?
- Who's the bigger spender?
- CHALLENGE: Give me your best chat-up line now. (Think on the spot!) Go, go, go, go!
- Who is more likely to get lost in a strange city?
- Who's a bigger mess?
- What new nickname do you think would best suit me?
- Who wants s*x more?
- Who says I love you more often?
- Have you ever practiced kissing in a mirror? (If not… on your hand, or something else?!)
- Who's a better driver?
- Who is a better dancer?
- Name the first 3 random things that come to your mind. Go, go, go, go!
- Who spends more time in the bathroom?
- If we swapped bodies for the day, what would you do?
- Who farts the loudest?
- Who's the head of the family?

Controversial Relationship Questions to Ask
- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid of?
- What would you miss the most if we weren’t together?
- How do you think our conflicts have strengthened our relationship?
- Will you consult me before making major decisions?
- Why do you think people cheat on their partners?
- Do I have any financial habits that bother you?
- In what ways do we complicate our relationship?
- What if I was a spender? How would you handle it?
- Do you believe in second chances?
- What relationship advice would you give yourself if you were to meet in the past?
- If you could only choose one, career or relationship, which one would you choose?
- What’s your ideal relationship?
- Do you have any deal-breakers, or things that would make you seriously reconsider our relationship?
- Will you stay even if I’m having anxiety or depression?
- Has it crossed your mind to give up?
- How long should two people date before they get married?
- Being friends with the opposite s*x, is it okay?
- Will you still choose me if you go back in time?
- What are the things that you wish we could work on in our relationship?
- What is your pet peeve in a relationship?
- If you ever face temptation, how will you deal with it?
- What is the hardest thing we’ve gone through together?
- Do you bring up arguments very often and why?
- Would you fight for me if ever I want to let go?
- Do you believe that white lies are okay?
- Do we have the same love language?
- Have you seen each other at your best and worst?
- What is the least lovable trait that I have?
- Is it important who wins the argument?
- Love life or career?
- Are you open about using s*x toys and trying out role plays?
- Have you ever been tempted to cheat?
- Have you felt bored with our relationship?

Intimate Relationship Questions to Ask
- What's your favorite s*x position?
- What’s something I do that always turns you on?
- Does the thought of someone watching us have s*x excite you?
- What do you find most s3xy about me?
- How do you define great s*x?
- Where would you like to be touched more often?
- Do you watch adult movies?
- Are you happy with our s3x life?
- What’s your favorite time of day to be intimate?
- What's something not obviously s*xual that turns you on?
- What's something new that you'd like to try in bed together?
- What is your favorite time for s3x?
- What's something you wish we did together more often?
- What is your favorite position?
- Does the idea of getting caught during s*x excite you?
- Do you have any s*xual fantasies?
- Do you have any wishes or fantasies that you haven't told me yet?
- Have you ever thought about me while masturbating?
- What else would you like to try in bed?
- What do you think we can do to keep our s*x life exciting?
- Do you think s3x is important for a relationship?
- Would you rather have only morning s*x for the rest of your life or strictly s*x at night?
- Have you ever faked an orgasm—not necessarily with me, but in general?
- Do you like playing with s*x toys, or would you like to try them as a couple?
- What do you enjoy most about s3x?
- If we could have s*x anywhere, where would you choose?
- Is there a type of outfit or clothes you find s*xy that you'd like to see me in?
- What turns you on the most?
- Is there any place you've always wanted to experience s3x?

Relationship Questions to Ask about Future
- Do you see yourself growing old with me?
- How and where do you envision us spending our retirement?
- At what age do you see yourself getting married?
- When it comes to the future, do you and your partner have the same relationship goal?
- How are we going to spend important holidays?
- What should be our main goals for the future?
- What are some fears you have about taking this next step?
- Which of your friends and family members are close enough to us that they may come to our home on very short notice, or even announced?
- What tasks should we each take on to keep the home in good shape?
- How often will you need time to yourself?
- How would you prefer to decorate our home?
- What would your ideal wedding look like?
- How and where do you envision us spending our retirement?
- What are some things you really want to do together, both short and long-term?
- Do you think we will become great parents?
- Why are you excited to move in together?
- What are you most excited about when it comes to our future?
- Are there any tasks (for example, grocery shopping) that you think could be fun to do together?
- What tasks should we divide?
- Would you want to create any traditions in your family going forward?
- Are we going to set aside regular time for date nights?
- How do you feel about hosting events, parties, or friends and family members as overnight guests?
- How are we going to keep our relationship strong or fresh?
- What is your preferred level of cleanliness?
- If you had an unlimited budget, where would you plan our next trip/vacation?
- Do you see us settling down anytime soon?
- Can you think of a new hobby we should try together?
- Where do you see us ten years from now?
- Do you want to live in this town where we are dating, or do you plan to move?
- Do you want a grand wedding or a simple one?
- What do you think our relationship will look like in 5 years?
- What should be our main goals for the future?

Relationship Questions to Ask about Kids
- Do you want kids? Why or why not?
- What kind of parent do you think each of us would be?
- What kind of education did you envision our children having?
- What do you think would be my strengths or weaknesses as a parent?
- Would you be open to adoption?
- How do you think you would handle pregnancy and labor?
- How do you think you would handle the adoption process?
- Do you ever picture having grandchildren?
- How long do you think people should wait before having kids?
- What are the values you'd like to instill in our children?
- How would you prefer we handle telling our children about the world's realities?
- Have you always envisioned yourself having kids?

Would You Rather Questions
- Would you rather have a cat or a dog?
- Would you rather be poor and do a job you love or be rich and do a job you hate?
- Sweet or salty?
- Would you rather rid the world of wars or hunger?
- Mountains or the sea?
- Would you rather speak the language of animals or speak all the languages of the world?
- Would you rather own a house or travel the world?
- Do you prefer to always have summer or always have summer?
- Would you rather be able to fly or breathe underwater?
- Would you rather live in Antarctica or the Sahara?
- Would you rather be kissed or hugged?
- Would you rather have your first child at eighteen or at forty?
- Prefer a lifetime unlimited voucher to your favorite restaurant or clothing store?
- Would you rather come a little later or a lot earlier?
- Should kids wear uniforms or dress arbitrarily?
- Would you rather get rich through hard work or win the lottery?
- Would you rather lose your keys or your phone?
- City or country?
- Would you rather work as part of a team or alone / by yourself?
- Would you rather call or text?
- Would you rather lose your hearing or your sight?
- Better to have many good friends or one for life and death?
- Would you rather go to the cinema alone or go out to dinner alone?
- Would you rather be a monk all your life or be constantly hounded by tabloids and paparazzi for the rest of your life?
- Would you rather have a book or a movie?
- Would you rather win the Olympics or become a Nobel Prize winner?
- Do you prefer to propose in private, in public or in front of friends/family?
- Would you rather have more time or money?
- Would you rather be the star of a team that lost or sit on the bench of a team that won?
- If it were possible, would you rather be a child or an adult all your life?
- Would you rather have a gift or money for your birthday?

Who Would Rather Questions
- Who is more likely to survive without coffee?
- Who would be more likely to sign up for a TV competition (e.g., Family Fortunes)?
- Who is more likely to end up in jail?
- Who would rather eat a spider?
- Who would be more likely to get lost in the woods?
- Who would rather forget the anniversary?
- Who would be more likely to go bungee jumping?
- Which of us takes more risks?
- Who is more likely to help a stranger on the street who has collapsed?
- Who would rather fall asleep in the theater?
- Who would be a worse actor?
- Who would rather eat a can of dog food?
- Who would make a better diplomat?
- Who cares more about the environment?
- Who is more likely to overeat?
- Who would be the first to start talking about children?
- Who is more addicted to social media?
- Who is more likely to go shopping when we run out of pastries/other food?
- Who would rather go into politics?
- Who was/is the bigger nerd?
- Who would find it easier to give up fast food?
- Who would be more likely to visit an indigenous tribe?
- Who would rather slip in the shower?
- Who is more adventurous?
- Who is more responsible?

Relationship Questions to Ask Yourself
- Are you willing to compromise your happiness for a successful relationship?
- When was the last time you had an in-depth conversation with your partner?
- Do you believe in staying with your partner for a very long time or even forever?
- Do you look forward to your future with your partner?
- Do you smile when you relate something from your daily life with your partner?
- Can you recall the most romantic moment with your partner?
- Do you throw your temper easily for small mistakes of your partners?
- When was the last time you said “I love you” to your partner?
- Do you feel jealous if your partner hangs out with a friend of the opposite s*x?
- If you could choose your partner again, would you choose the same person?
- How often do you think of your partner?
- Is it really necessary to know everything from your partner’s previous relationships?
- Do you get each other’s feelings without the need to say anything?
- Do you make sacrifices for your relationship?
- Do you think your partner’s friends and family like you?
- How much do you think you understand your partner?
- Do you respect each other’s beliefs?
- Are you keeping any secrets that you’re afraid of letting your partner know?
- What makes you happier in a relationship, sharing or sacrificing?
- Are you happy with the intimacy you share?
- Have you ever thought about breaking up with your partner and why?
- Are you in a relationship only because you enjoy the excitement or the feeling to be loved and cared about?
- Have you ever apologized for what you’ve done wrong to your partner?
- Will you lie for the sake of your partner’s happiness and how do you define the line?
- Do you feel the same way you felt for your partner at the beginning of the relationship?
- When was the last time you dreamt about your partner?
- Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Why?
- Do you forgive your partner’s mistakes easily?
- Do you still like what you loved about your partner and why?
- Will you say sorry to your partner even though it’s not your fault?
- Do you like spending time with your partner’s friends and family?
- Have you ever changed anything for your partner?
- Do you feel that your partner accepts the way you are?
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